I made some research on how we can improve our listening skills. This one is a very simple research, done via asking our little expert, Mr. Google.
So, here we go.
1) ASK
Listen to our audience/ speakers and ask for the very last item the speaker said. It is norm, and how Allah create our mind to only listen and catch the last words that the audience said.
2) NO DAYDREAMING
Yeah right. Jangan berkhayal depan orang lain guys. Day dream at your own time, not others :) . Their time are too precious to be wasted.
3) SET YOUR SUBCONCIOUS MIND
Kata Nabi, kalau nak jadikan sesuatu benda itu menjadi habit, lakukannya secara berturutan selama 21 hari. When it become a habit, we dont have to ask our mind to that habit, because it is already a habit! Habit is determined by our subconscious mind. So whenever we meet new people, set our subconscious mind to open and receive new ideas. Be open.
4) BODY LANGUAGE
This is our unspoken words, that create huge impacts to our audience. Do response. Nod, show our interest, genuinely SMILE, do not interrupt while they are talking and FEEL what they trying to say.
So sahabat, we can be a good listener, if we want to.
Yes, it is time to start practicing. Happy practicing!
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